Showing posts with label friends. Show all posts
Showing posts with label friends. Show all posts

Sunday, 2 November 2014

Now I'm talking (10)

Kenyans are my favourite people. I love my family and I am as patriotic as it gets. But I really enjoy being around these brothers and sisters of mine. They are the perfect mix of drama and cool contentedness. They know how to get a party started, for those who like that kind of thing. However, at the same time, they know how to be still and sensible. I should know. I married one of them :)

Yesterday, I was in a cab with a Kenyan. Being the quiet soul that I am, I sat quietly for an hour and planned my next day's activity. My companion, noticing that I wasn't the chatty type, turned up the radio and sat quietly with me the entire time. I am accustomed to and unhappy with the hundreds of questions that I have to answer in most cab rides, so this was a pleasant surprise for me. 

When we got to the end of the ride, he thanked me in Kiswahili (to which I responded in my massacred version of the language). He seemed like a sensible dude [especially in comparison to the dude at Walmart who was trying to seduce me while I shopped for stationery!]. I was gutted that I had missed out on this opportunity, to meet another one of my favourite people. Worse still, I didn't get his number. So, I'm now on a mission to meet people and make friends until I find my almost friend. I didn't even get his name! 

How many other almost friends have I missed out on, I wonder? I am usually a strong defender of my right to be quiet and keep to myself. But that may change now. Now, I'm talking. [Well, at least a little more than usual...]

Tuesday, 20 January 2009

Grace

It's 10 PM. She faithfully kneels down to pray. In the privacy of the darkness, she shows You her heart, scars and all. She dares not lift her head. But I can still see the tears streaming down her beautiful face. I would have thought that, by now, You would know when, where and how to meet her. If it were up to me, this would be the last time she would cry. These would be her last tears... If it were up to me, this would be the last time that she would fight with grief.

I'm startled when I hear her say my name, in the midst of her sobs. Perhaps she has noticed I was listening in on her intimate moments? Finally, I understand. It is not her personal grief that wears her down. She is scarred because she is fighting for my life. She chose to bear my burden. So, in a way, it is up to me...